If you are divorcing, you will each need to present the court with a complete list of your assets. Being honest here is crucial to ensure a fair split in accordance with state laws. Unfortunately, some spouses do not behave fairly, and attempt to conceal assets from...
How long can alimony last after a Massachusetts divorce?
Some people give up their careers, or at least prioritize their family, ahead of their jobs. It was once considered standard for women to do so, but more men now stay home to raise children or work part-time to take care of their families. Regardless of the sex of the...
Divorce in Massachusetts: The residency requirement
If you have decided to end your marriage, you should expect to deal with the technical requirements of a divorce. Before filing for one, you have a handful of things to consider, one of which is the residency requirement of your state. Under Massachusetts laws, at...
When should you tell your spouse you want a divorce?
Acknowledging that your marriage has come to an end is sad. But it can even be more challenging to inform your spouse about it. Even though they may have noticed the signs of the marriage not working, they may not expect a divorce. Therefore, you should approach the...
3 ways to handle narcissistic gaslighting in divorce
Divorcing a narcissistic partner, diagnosed or not, can profoundly destabilize you and the entire process. Contrary to popular belief, narcissism can extend beyond simple vanity. It is a personality disorder that covers a broad spectrum of potentially damaging traits....
Do couples need to divide retirement savings when they divorce?
Married couples in Massachusetts can accrue decades' worth of assets before one or both spouses decide to file for divorce. The process of separating those assets can often be the most contentious and time-consuming aspect of divorce proceedings. Couples may fight...
Filing a divorce in Massachusetts
A contested divorce happens when either party does not agree to the divorce or the terms and conditions of the divorce. In an uncontested divorce, the spouses can agree on all divorce-related matters. You can file a “no-fault” or “fault” divorce, regardless of whether...
4 issues that lead to divorce
Many people don’t get divorced because it’s the right time to do it. Divorce often happens because there’s an issue that can only be resolved through legal means. Some of these issues can be resolved with therapy, but therapy may only prolong the inevitable. When...
Why should you keep the details of your divorce off social media?
Going through a divorce is undeniably difficult. It’s a big upheaval for everyone involved and is an often emotive and challenging time. It can be tempting to post your upset and frustration on social media, especially if you’re finding it hard to get the support you...
What should your children know about divorce?
Talking to children about the complexity of divorce can be difficult for parents. You can’t exactly keep the kids in the dark about the upcoming changes, but knowing what to say – and what not to say – can be really hard. With that in mind, here are a few places to...