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How do you divorce a difficult spouse? 

You have been in a toxic marriage for years, and you cannot take it anymore. The relationship is damaged beyond repair, and as much as you want to divorce your spouse, you fear what the process will be like. 

Divorce is, for most, a nerve-racking experience. However, things become even more difficult when your spouse is a narcissist. So how do you end your marriage with a narcissist without losing your mind?

Here are two tips that can help you minimize emotional damage while divorcing a difficult spouse. 

Manage your anger

A difficult spouse will seize every opportunity at their disposal to get under your skin. However, you need to do everything in your power to keep your anger and emotions out of the divorce process. 

Expect your spouse to be true to form. They’ll go out of their way to frustrate you and drag out the process. Don’t rise to their bait. Document everything and let the court know about their behavior. Do not let anger cloud your decisions during the divorce process. 

Focus on your life and future

Life will definitely go on after the divorce. You are better off focusing on your life goals and the things you hope to accomplish once you are through with the divorce than your spouse’s attempts to create drama. 

It is in your best interest that you commit to peace and maturity even if you are getting none of those things from your spouse. If you can, consider getting help in the form of counseling. 

It is not uncommon for a divorce to bring out the worst in people. Knowing your legal options during the divorce process can help you divorce a difficult spouse without jeopardizing your rights.