The custody terms set by a judge when parents litigate their divorce reflect what the judge believes would be in the best interests of the children. It is common for parents who do not receive an equal allocation of parenting time to want more. Oftentimes, they have...
4 questions children may ask about a divorce
When parents get divorced, kids often have a lot of questions. It’s important for parents to keep these questions in mind when having conversations about the upcoming divorce process. But what are children going to ask? It may be much different than what adults would...
How to tell your boss about your divorce
You are not required to tell your employer about your divorce. But it's a good idea to do so. Divorce can be demanding – you may have to attend mediation sessions and hearings during work hours. This means you may leave work early or arrive late. Further, you may be...
Do you suspect your spouse is hiding assets during the divorce?
If you are divorcing, you will each need to present the court with a complete list of your assets. Being honest here is crucial to ensure a fair split in accordance with state laws. Unfortunately, some spouses do not behave fairly, and attempt to conceal assets from...
How long can alimony last after a Massachusetts divorce?
Some people give up their careers, or at least prioritize their family, ahead of their jobs. It was once considered standard for women to do so, but more men now stay home to raise children or work part-time to take care of their families. Regardless of the sex of the...
Divorce in Massachusetts: The residency requirement
If you have decided to end your marriage, you should expect to deal with the technical requirements of a divorce. Before filing for one, you have a handful of things to consider, one of which is the residency requirement of your state. Under Massachusetts laws, at...
What can I do if my ex isn’t meeting their parenting time duties?
"Parenting time" describes the time each parent must spend with their child after marriage. Parents or the court decide these periods, prioritizing the child's needs. However, the noncustodial parent might not stick to this schedule, causing emotional harm to the...
When should you tell your spouse you want a divorce?
Acknowledging that your marriage has come to an end is sad. But it can even be more challenging to inform your spouse about it. Even though they may have noticed the signs of the marriage not working, they may not expect a divorce. Therefore, you should approach the...
3 ways to handle narcissistic gaslighting in divorce
Divorcing a narcissistic partner, diagnosed or not, can profoundly destabilize you and the entire process. Contrary to popular belief, narcissism can extend beyond simple vanity. It is a personality disorder that covers a broad spectrum of potentially damaging traits....
A win-win situation: How establishing paternity benefits both parents
In recent years, more people have chosen not to marry. Instead, many couples decide to live together and have a family outside marriage. With cost-efficiency and convenience as common benefits, cohabitation is a rising trend among partners. Nevertheless, unmarried...