Divorcing a narcissistic partner, diagnosed or not, can profoundly destabilize you and the entire process. Contrary to popular belief, narcissism can extend beyond simple vanity. It is a personality disorder that covers a broad spectrum of potentially damaging traits....
Do couples need to divide retirement savings when they divorce?
Married couples in Massachusetts can accrue decades' worth of assets before one or both spouses decide to file for divorce. The process of separating those assets can often be the most contentious and time-consuming aspect of divorce proceedings. Couples may fight...
Filing a divorce in Massachusetts
A contested divorce happens when either party does not agree to the divorce or the terms and conditions of the divorce. In an uncontested divorce, the spouses can agree on all divorce-related matters. You can file a “no-fault” or “fault” divorce, regardless of whether...
4 issues that lead to divorce
Many people don’t get divorced because it’s the right time to do it. Divorce often happens because there’s an issue that can only be resolved through legal means. Some of these issues can be resolved with therapy, but therapy may only prolong the inevitable. When...
Why should you keep the details of your divorce off social media?
Going through a divorce is undeniably difficult. It’s a big upheaval for everyone involved and is an often emotive and challenging time. It can be tempting to post your upset and frustration on social media, especially if you’re finding it hard to get the support you...
What should your children know about divorce?
Talking to children about the complexity of divorce can be difficult for parents. You can’t exactly keep the kids in the dark about the upcoming changes, but knowing what to say – and what not to say – can be really hard. With that in mind, here are a few places to...
How is marital property divided in a Massachusetts divorce?
Whether you were married for one year or 30 years, chances are you have accumulated property during the course of your marriage – and all that has to be divided when you divorce. Massachusetts is an equitable distribution state. This means that marital assets are...
How will your adult children take the news of your divorce?
When people discuss the impact on children when their parents get divorced, the conversation naturally goes to how it affects young children. They rely on their parents for everything and a difficult divorce can have lasting impacts on them as they grow up. Having...
Is moving out of the family home during the divorce advisable?
Make no mistake, divorce even under the best of circumstances is a very difficult undertaking. Sharing the same living space with someone you no longer love (or resent) can be anything but bearable. But should you leave the marital home before the divorce is...
5 mistakes to avoid during your divorce
A lot happens in a divorce. Beyond dealing with the emotional burden, you also need to keep an eye on countless details, from dividing assets and determining custody arrangements to settling financial disputes. Amidst it all, it’s easy to slip up and make mistakes...