For recently divorced Massachusetts parents, learning how to take care of children both on their own and on the same page as their ex-spouse can be difficult new waters to navigate. They may feel stressed about the child custody arrangements or about trying to fully come to an agreement about those arrangements. The process can be long and challenging to face, but it is important that parents do not project their negative feelings about the situation onto their children.
A good point to remember is that it is not the children's decision for their parents to divorce or to have to make trips from one house to another in order to see their parents. Therefore, parents should attempt to keep their frustrations in check should a child leave a needed item at the other parent's home. Planning ahead can be difficult and forgetting things can be a common mistake when possessions are being spread between two homes.
The relationship between the parents after divorce can play a considerable role in how children feel about the situation. If parents are able to maintain an amiable relationship and continue to parent their children as a team in areas such as discipline, children may be able to have much needed steady structure. Presenting a continued united front in such areas could deter children from favoring one parent over the other.
Though these ideas may seem simple to execute, dealing with child custody issues can prove to be more difficult than imagined in some cases. However, proper preparation can help parents better understand how to approach certain custody issues. Massachusetts child custody laws could be a reliable resource for parents with concerns should they wish to entertain the idea of custody changes that could possibly benefit their children and their situation.
Source: The Huffington Post, "Because We Both Love You" -- New Year's Resolutions for Divorced Parents, Kate Scharff, Dec. 30, 2013